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Abigail Van Buren — Jun 2nd, Trouble, as far as I'm concerned! For the past couple of months, my year-old son, Eric, has been involved with a year-old woman I'll call "Lois. He is a sweet, outgoing young man and is very popular with the girls. I'm not surprised that he is flattered by the attention of an older woman, and I'm sure he acts very mature when he is around her, but my son is very much an adolescent at heart.
Advice: Part of growing up is becoming a responsible individual. Making amends for past misdeeds is a part of that process your nephew seems to have skipped. My year-old nephew recently turned his life around. He has a good job, a nice girlfriend and a baby on the way. But when he and my sister were living with my late mother a few years ago, he trashed Mom's basement where he was living , and it cost her hundreds of dollars to repair the damage.
Advice: Your son has been honest with you about his sexual orientation. He's an adult and should be entitled to privacy regardless of the gender of his companion. He has a part-time job and goes to school part-time. He is somewhat secretive. We don't know his friends or where he goes.