I once dated a guy who refused to go down on me. As if his dick tasted like an ice cream cone. Friends I confided in at the time suggested I stop giving him blow jobs, to give him a taste of his own medicine. But since I enjoy giving pleasure, no BJs felt like double the punishment. And how else does one get what one wants out of sex than by talking about it?
The first person to be convicted of HIV exposure in Singapore has been sentenced to a year in prison. Incredibly, the HIV-positive man performed oral sex in a public toilet, which, as I had noted in my previous blog posting on this case , results in no risk to the person being sucked. IN THE first case of its kind, a year-old HIV sufferer was jailed for 12 months on Monday for having sex with a boy without telling him of the risk of contracting the infection and getting him to agree to accept that risk. Chan Mun Chiong, a former chef, pleaded guilty to performing oral sex on the year-old boy at the third level male toilet of Northpoint Shopping Centre in Yishun last year.
According to recent press reports, Americans are having oral sex at alarmingly younger ages -- and with increasing nonchalance. Note: Oral sex here refers exclusively to fellatio. Oral sex precedes and often replaces sexual intercourse because it's perceived to be noncommittal, quick and safe. For some kids it's a cool thing to do; for others it's a cheap thrill. Raised in a culture in which speed is valued, kids, not surprisingly, seek instant gratification through oral sex the girl by instantly pleasing the boy, the boy by sitting back and enjoying the ride.
For men, receiving head is the holy grail of sex acts, and it's always been that way. Hell, I'd even go as far as to say that in their minds blowjobs during sex are a given — and just one of the many perks that comes with male privilege. Who among us hasn't had a guy nudge or flat out push our head down there?